Father, anoint me with your Holy Spirit,
so that as I read Your eternal word,
Your word may penetrate my whole being
and transform me.
Grant me the blessing to be a faithful disciple
in believing the Word of God
and that I may be a light shining
upon all who are in darkness.
Lord Jesus Christ, by Your patience in suffering
you hallowed earthly pain
and gave us the example of obedience to your Father’s will:
Be near me in my time of weakness and pain;
sustain me by Your grace,
that my strength and courage may not fail;
heal me according to Your will;
and help me always to believe
that what happens to me here
is of little account if You hold me in eternal life,
my Lord and my God. Amen.
Make us of quick and tender conscience, O Lord;
that understanding we may obey every word of Thine,
and discerning may follow every suggestion
of Thine indwelling Spirit.
Speak, Lord, for Thy servant heareth.
– Christina G. Rossetti (1830-1895)
Oh, God, make me a better parent.
Help me to understand my children,
to listen patiently to what they have to say
and to answer all their questions kindly.
Keep me from interrupting them,
talking back to them and contradicting them.
Make me as courteous to them
as I would have them be to me.
Give me the courage to confess my sins
against my children and to ask of them forgiveness,
when I know that I have done them wrong.
May I not vainly hurt the feelings of my children.
Forbid that I should laugh at their mistakes or
resort to shame and ridicule as punishment.
Let me not tempt a child to lie and steal.
So guide me hour by hour that I may demonstrate
by all I say and do that honestly produces happiness.
Reduce, I pray, the meanness in me.
May I cease to nag:
and when I am out of sorts,
help me, O Lord, to hold my tongue.
Blind me to the little errors of my children
and help me to see the good things that they do.
Give me a ready word for honest praise.
Help to treat my children as those of their own age,
but let me not exact of them the judgments
and conventions of adults.
Allow me not to rob them of the opportunity
to wait upon themselves,
to think, to choose, and to make decisions.
Forbid that I should ever punish them
for my self satisfaction.
May I grant them all of their wishes
that are reasonable and have the courage always to withhold
a privilege that I know will do them harm.
O Jesus, lover of the young, the dearest Friend I have,
in all confidence I open my heart to You
to beg Your light and assistance in the important task of planning my future.
Give me the light of Your grace,
that I may decide wisely concerning the person
who is to be my partner through life.
Dearest Jesus, send me such a one
whom in Your divine wisdom
You judge best suited
to be united with me in marriage.
May his character reflect some of the traits of Your own Sacred Heart.
May he be upright, loyal, pure, sincere and noble,
so that with united efforts and with pure and unselfish love
we both may strive to perfect ourselves in soul and body,
as well as the family it may please You to entrust to our care.
Bless our friendship before marriage,
that sin may have no part in it.
May our mutual love bind us so closely,
that our future home may ever be most like Your own at Nazareth.
O Mary Immaculate, sweet Mother of the young,
to your special care I entrust the decision I am to make
as to my future husband.
You are my guiding Star!
direct me to the person
with whom I can best cooperate
with whom I can live in peace, love and harmony in this life,
and attain eternal joys in the next.
Bless Our Family
All praise to You, Lord Jesus,
Lover of children:
Bless our family,
And help us to lead our children to You.
Give us light and strength,
And courage when our task is difficult.
Let Your Spirit fill us with love and peace,
So that we may help our children to love You.
All glory and praise are Yours, Lord Jesus,
Forever and ever.
Lord, bless us and keep us always with You,
Open our eyes to see each other as You see us.
Open our hearts to love each other as You love us.
Open our minds to the wonder and mystery of who You are
and of who You have created
each of us to be
And let us spend our lifetimes together.
The LORD is cleansing me
of all selfishness,
resentment and critical feelings
for my fellow beings
…as well as self-condemnation
and the misinterpretation of my life experiences…
…and more HE is bathing me
in generosity, appreciation, praise and gratitude
for my fellow beings
…and blessed me with self-acceptance
and an enlightened understanding of my experiences…